some love your way..

Let it go girl. Its time you let it go. Free yourself too. Don’t hold onto things that make you sad!

If not them, there’ll be someone, somewhere to value you. You just have to wait. Wait for the right time. Which now isn’t! It’s too early to jump to conclusions. Hold on.

Life has just begun.

You have so much to see and experience.

There are going to be so many who’ll tell you you’re pretty, Tell you’re lovely,You’re Kind, you’re caring & You make them go crazy.

But don’t listen to them. It’s all a trap baby girl. Don’t fall for any sweet lil lies.

You’ll know when it’s right. You’ll know who’s right.

Don’t look for an angel in disguise.  See the devil that is inside. Let it go.  Get back to the old self.  Let the inner monster die within.

Look for the one who loves your wildness. Who’ll join your craziness!  Who’ll stick by you for and till the end!

Who see’s how messed you are,How your eye power is 6 and will still make you take off your glasses just to see your beautiful deep brown-black eyes,Who’ll join the dots on your skin, who’ll embrace your face in spite of your blemishes,Who wont care for your small body, But will value your soul, Find someone who notices even the slightest change in your tone, Someone who’ll wait in the rain without an umbrella just to see you, Someone who’ll climb stairs, lie at home and sneak out just to meet you. Find someone who isn’t ashamed of admitting their love for you.

Find someone who’ll see the dreams in your eyes and read the thoughts from your head. Find someone who touches you not for their desires but to know what its like to touch someone made of a golden heart. Find someone who’ll ask you to stay even when you’ve spent hours together. Find someone who never gets tired of you. Someone who finds a new reason to love you everyday.

Mostly. Find someone who’s perfectness fills your imperfections and the both of you together could face any power in this world. After all, love,my friend is the greatest force that keeps us together.

All about taking risks. All about giving in. all about sacrifices. All about the physics and chemistry. All about the stars and galaxies and the edge.

You deserve someone who would give you a love deeper than the ocean. Further than the sky and brighter than the sun.

Hey there reading this, hold on God’s sending some love your way.

Body Shaming.

If you call a girl fat, its rude and hurtful. But is it acceptable to call a girl skinny?

Body shaming is defined as the action or practice of humiliating someone by making mocking or critical comments about their body shape or size.

So why do we only take in concern issues and problems faced by a girl who happens to buy her clothes from the “plus size” section of clothing. It is high time we also pay attention to girls who buy their clothes from the children’s section or has to get every single piece of clothing altered before wearing it. Be it skinny shaming, Fat shaming or even making comments on the height, colour and various facial and physical features   is unjust.

Who gives people the right to call someone a potato and someone a matchstick? We are in the 21st century and we still judge people on their physical appearance. The funny thing about skinny shaming is that it doesn’t exist for people, for them it’s just “being concerned”. Being called thin is not a compliment, it’s a mockery. Everywhere you go you have people who are “concerned” about your physical state (more than your mental state).

“Such thin wrists” “You don’t have hips!” “Do you smell food or just look at it to fill your stomach?” “Keep some coins in your pocket or the wind will take you along” “Eat milk and bananas daily” “You’ll never look good in xyz outfits”

People don’t realize how their one statement goes a long way and affects one deeply. It makes the person feel inadequate and inferior, Instead of accepting the fact that fast metabolism or thyroid etc.  Does exist, they love to shower their tips and views on how being skinny makes you unfit for the society and how Your mom eats all the food and doesn’t give you any.  Thin shaming isn’t just limited to girls; boys too face a lot from their coaches or team members and are usually considered weak or unfit. 

These days we take every little issue over social media as it helps reach masses but one of the main amount of body shaming comes from social media where anonymously people send you ill remarks on your body type, because people who we come across daily at work or university, relatives who we meet occasionally and strangers In public places were less to pass comments or give stares. 

Indeed we cannot change how one thinks about others but we surely can make them aware about how one feels and maybe that might change their thinking.